Energy: Openings and Closures in a Connection

"A FLOWER CANNOT BLOSSOM WITHOUT SUNSHINE, AND A MAN OR WOMAN CANNOT LIVE WITHOUT LOVE. " Max Muller

In my sessions, I explain in my love readings with Tarot, Couples Reiki, or Medium. Energy is a frequency and a vibration, and with the universal law, attraction or manifestation is a part of the process. That saying "I just felt it as soon as I saw them". That is energy, you were to take a look at that person and feel the vibrational connection between you both.

The first law of energy is vibration. Take your hands, rub them really fast together, now clap really fast, and then rub your hands together fast again. Then pull your hands apart until you feel the energy between your hands. This actually is energy that Reiki Masters work with. That energy is your guide and balance. If you did not feel it, think about the energy between your hands and close your eyes, and think of your hands in your mind.

The second law is attraction. The saying "It was something about her/him that caught my eye". Third eye chakra, to be exact.

What happens if something goes wrong in the relationship, and we part ways? Is it over? I hate that person with a passion, or I ghosted them and never want to talk to them again. You did not get closure to move past their energy thou. You just stacked the negative energy in your body to manifest and hurt you, not them. This paragraph explains it. I have moved on, you might say, or my relationships always go to heck. I am not sure why that is happening; this is why.

You are only able to attract the frequency with which you vibrate. So if an energetic tie to one person is blocking another person from coming in. It means the next person to come in is vibrating at a different frequency. Since the primary law is of vibration that if they are vibrating at a different frequency. I have to be vibrating at the same frequency to attract them in. A new vibration will manifest a different outcome. However, an energetic tie to a past person can very easily keep you stuck in the vibration that attracted that person in to begin with. Thus, carrying into this next relationship and not giving it a chance.

Let me explain more, you think in your mind you released your ex, it is done, but that feeling of energy inside you is telling you that you have a connection. You may have just buried it, but when you see them again, the feelings come back. You have not energetically closed it. You should be able to be in the same room as he/she without your stomach doing flip-flops in energy and attraction. Plus, if the energetic connection is finished, you should not have nervous or angry feelings; there should be inner peace to see them again. You have to release that energy because you may have been intimate or past life connection. Soul bond or karmic lesson could be at play.

Walking away from that person without closure. Does not take the energy away. Now this part if he/she were abusive, do this in private. Take their photo or the item you kept. Either bury it with salt or burn the photo. Say to your guides, I release all ties and energy to this person. I need peace & healing to cut the energetic ties. Do not contact for your safety.

If you are able to have a conversation with them. First, tell them in person or by email, text, or message. Show them the good they brought to your life and what you learned from their experience. Thank you for that, and do say sorry that I may have done this to you. Validate what your part in it was. It's an energy release and confirmation that you take soul responsibility. That you wish them well on their journey, glad our paths have crossed.

By not having closure. You are just carrying this negative energy space on your body and into your next relationship. You are not giving that next relationship your full self. You hold back with grudges or explanations that this happened to me. Always learn the lesson that was brought to you, not the pain. Remember how strong you were to walk away and heal. The biggest thing is this new person has not done anything wrong, the red flags, yes, be aware of but do not create a war. They may be energy you held from your past lovers if you just think about it. Why did you get upset? Then you need to release it.

I have told clients in session, release is like a Batman signal to the universe to the one who is meant to come into your life that you are ready.

If you need more guidance or closure in this area. Even a feeling of a new beginning. Book an appointment with me, we can do tarot, medium, and Reiki sessions. It will be a private session. I am under the code of conduct.

Let's make you feel stronger, lighter, and feeling of a bright future ahead. Make you feel like you again to call in the love of your life. Everyone deserves that kind of love, even you.